The Never give up guy
You only fail when you stop trying...
I have worked hard and immersed myself in many things throughout my life gaining invaluable experiences whilst overcoming so much adversity where I have been forced to dig deep from the trenches to find a way out to SURVIVE, WIN and be SUCCESSFUL.
As such, I have years of REAL and SOLID motivation experience from my 30 years as a Police officer dealing with every grizzly situation, from those tough stories as a Chief instructor in Kung Fu, from finding the heart to win multiple Squash tournaments despite many setbacks, losing my loved ones at a young age, being totally blind and even coming back from my DEATHBED
when I was struck down with severe illnesses and CRP levels at a shocking 587 and the odds stacked against me.
All of these experiences were destined to break my spirit and willpower but I developed systems, mantras and an indomitable mind and overcame it all where I simply refused to give up and now as a MOTIVATION and RESILIENCE COACH,
I can effectively support, mentor and coach you with the following;
MOTIVATION – Help you to achieve your goals, be more confident, determined, successful and support you in creating diverse income streams through excellent time-management systems.
NEVER GIVING UP - Develop mental toughness and resilience to overcome any issue no matter how brutal in ways that have helped me multiple times when I was forced to face my fears in impossible situations. I will show you how to fight back through those difficult times, tough obstacles, all forms of inequality and any issue in your life with fortitude, a full heart and an unbreakable spirit.
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A snapshot of my journey and why they call me the Never give up guy...
MOVED TO A HOSPITAL SIDE-ROOM TO DIE WITH SEPSIS and 587 CRP LEVELS
I survived double pneumonia, severe blood poisoning (Sepsis) that was ravishing my entire body, double lung pleurisy (with drains pumping blood and pus out of my lungs), MRSA, multiple-organ failure, type 2 respiratory failure and CRP levels at 587 (with anything over 200 considered fatal). On top of this, I had lost 3 stone, not eaten for weeks and was on full oxygen and this was all at the same time in 1 brutal and painful sitting over 5 tumultuous weeks in hospital where I was even put in a hospital side room to die. Doctors told me it was a miracle I survived and no-one with illnesses I had along with CRP levels that high gets out alive and they said it was years of competing in my high level sports (squash, kung fu) that had saved my life as my heart refused to give out along with my absolute refusal to throw the towel in. I had made my mind a fortress at the time, reciting mantras to myself and making a pact with God as I knew there was no back-up and it was just down to me to find a way off of my deathbed where I was going to shuffle off this mortal coil and die. I am glad my indomitable fighting spirit never let me down and I had the willpower to dig deep mentally where I fought back with every vestige of strength and mental fortitude I could muster and it worked. The doctors remained incredulous (even to this day) with my survival and later gave me a printout of my 587 CRP scores for posterity and a badge of purpose as I moved forward with my life and I always wear a chain embossed with the names of my family, Never give up and 587 as a reminder forever more... You are never out of the fight - So NEVER GIVE UP! |
DEALING WITH PERSONAL TRAGEDY
Sadly losing Mum to cancer at 53 years old (my best friend and the most beautiful person inside and out) and being departed from the majority of my birth family in my 20’s with just my beautiful Sister and I left was soul-destroying and destined to break me but I stood firm and never let this heartbreak define me and instead I made the decision to really live life and as such I travelled with friends/family to over 60 countries (& still going strong) and I visited; - Most of the major cities across Europe, - The majestic charm of Brazil, - Wonderous Goa, - The crazy wonder of Argentina, - The teasing Pyramids of Giza, - Going crackers in Caracas, - Great memories in USA/Canada and the Caribbean, - Along with many other fabulous destinations with my favourite slice of paradise on Earth being the beautiful, magical and gorgeous Maldives a destination that I have visited multiple times and will keep going back to until the very last drop...it is just flaming gorgeous & I am in love... My Sister and I also appeared on multiple Gameshows on TV including, 5 mins to a Fortune, Exit List, Blockbusters (where I won the 1st ever Gold run) and I even tried my luck on Total Wipeout in Argentina. We laughed, cried, built memories and lived our lives with no regrets and as always, I am determined to never let anything grind me down, never... NEVER GIVE UP despite the cards that life has dealt you |
5 SERIOUS KNEE OPERATIONS AND SQUASH SUCCESS
I had 5 knee Operations over the years and progressively DRs said my knee was the worst bone on bone they had seen as I was stage 4 and my tibia had a huge crater in it where the bone had been ground down by my femur and with not a meniscus or articular cartilage anywhere to be seen with Drs insisting that I immediately quit ALL sport. Despite these setbacks I continued with my goals and over the decades won over 70+ trophies as a semi-Pro squash player playing in 2 tournaments every month against elite-level opponents in gruelling 64 draw competitions despite wearing a heavy-duty knee brace and being in pain with some of my most memorable wins being the Slough, Leeds, Uxbridge and London tournaments. Crucially, I still lived my best moments by competing and never missing out on those magical moments. In recent times however as the pain exacerbated and there was enough safety data, I underwent a final knee operation called a HTO (same as David Goggins) where my knee was fixed once and for all. As a result, I am now pain free and I will be aiming to compete on the Masters Squash circuit with the goal being to represent England soon just like my son and that would be a really heart-warming feeling and personal achievement. NEVER GIVE UP and live for the great moments in life as the time never comes back |
PUBLISHING BOOKS DESPITE CONSTANT REJECTIONS
I have always loved writing and had some great ideas and as such I wanted to publish my books but every publisher I turned to for many years rejected my books and no-one gave me a chance. Despite these constant set-backs, I self-published many books and sold record copies with one book reaching number 1 on a list proving you must always find a way to do something if you want it bad enough. NEVER GIVE UP on your passion in life KEEP STUDYING AND IMPROVING YOURSELF Many people said that with the Police job, family, kids and being in my 40’s it would be impossible to study and achieve a MSc degree due to the complexities of such a tough qualification but I never listened and proudly achieved it anyway. I also gave the 11+ a go and having never taken an 11+ exam or even studied the curriculum I helped all 3 of my children gain their spots in Grammar school by teaching them myself despite being told that I was doomed to fail as I was not a teacher and had no clue about the 11+ but I was focussed and it paid off. NEVER GIVE UP on improving yourself and doing things you are uncomfortable with |
I will end by saying that I am a straight talking, no-nonsense motivational speaker and these traits have been honed from my lifetime of experiences. I always speak from the heart and deliver all of my messages directly and I am extremely passionate to help YOU to unleash the tools, systems and processes that have helped me for years to find success, to survive, to win, to endure and to overcome everything that life has thrown at me and then some more…
Stay blessed, healthy and happy and I hope you share this journey with me!
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